Forum Phoenix
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Finally, reason and sense seems to be returning to the forum...
Thank f**k for some sweet fresh air at last....
The Lawrie out rubbish has been absolutely killing me as a supporter.
A dismal run of performances I can handle. Concerns, discussion etc.. about it are warranted and fine... but the emotionality, lack of reason and worst of all easy hatred and abuse, really began to feel like our beautiful spirited gutsy little club, that has so consistently punched beyond it weight, and beyond what I think is any possible expectation that a reasonable fan could have... Well, shit, it begun to feel like we were adopting the absolute mentality that has been shown by Bling and other clubs with their heads firmly up their asses the world over. A winners mentality some call it. You have to expect and demand the best to get the best... and nothing else will do... A recipe for total f**king disaster for a small community club in its infancy more like. I've actually been genuinely scared that we were beginning to seriously jeopardise our own beloved clubs future.
And please don't say its the losses that have done it, winning is always good for growth, but every club will need to endure and survive losing streaks.
The problem is that two weeks ago, after burning for months over the Lawrie out thread, I finally had my 11 year old son come home and tell me his football buddies from school now all "hated" Lawrie. I was stunned, (I've done my best to counter this now) but this occured because at their respective team trainings they had been listening to the emotional and un realistic opinions that had gradually filtered down through the ranks... sure they took several months to get down to the kids... but they got there.
I felt embarrassed and ashamed as a supporter that this could actually be being said about someone who has done so very much for football on the coast and has clearly proved he is one of the top A league coaches and in my opinion the best role model and representative that any A league club has had so far.
The same can be said for the bad mouthing of various players. Take the piss, critique performance, well and good... But the whole... "Your uttelry f**king shit" " Your not fit to wear the shirt" crap is never anything but destructive. And for a small community based club? I honestly just don't think we can afford this kind of pessimism and ill sentiment. Ragging on the coach or players is a luxury you may be afforded when you know your clubs future is fairly safe because your hopelessly addicted fan base will return next season regardless even its just to complain about their teams short comings... but for the CC Mariners... shit... this rubbish can bring even large and prestigious clubs to their knees.
The reality is, we have actually managed to gripe about our current manager enough, until finally the young kids of the coast, who lacking our purportedly football based knowledge and adult reasoning, translate the discontent they hear into the only currency they can readily understand... we hate him... he's shit and they're shit.
This from, falling backwards over having the self same players or manager signing their shirt only a season ago... It's sad in a word, and more worriedly I think we're really sticking our heads in the noose.
This needs to be undone.
I don't want to be misunderstood, I don't miss a game, and I haven't enjoyed our poor run, however in truth I still just love going to a mariners match regardless, it's just even better when we win. That said, for mine, anyone who truly thinks our run of results were coaching and not squad related is kidding themselves. We lost Mile and our season accordingly. The transfer - was it wise in terms of football? Clearly not, yet as if they didn't know that? But honorable and in the best interests of the player? I'd say most definitely so. And it's something which I am proud of, and also something which is likely integral to us being able to attract any players at all to a club which otherwise is clearly outgunned in this league in its buying/pulling power otherwise. A hard to bare fact, which cost us our chance of a more successful ACL bid with our under strength squad.
So what are we to do.... we can blame a team or harass our players, when it is quite clear that we have been a couple of key players short of cutting it? Or we can blame management for being stingy and inept for not making signings? But how anyone can think this is beyond me. Do you really think the people who unearthed Mile and built a journeymans squad that has achieved what it has against all odds are stupid? Lazy perhaps? You think Lyall's was out dancing with disco Nik during the transfer window and recruitment just slipped his mind? You really don't think they were trying? You don't think those whose whole lives are completely invested in the club aren't giving it every ounce of their best? Or maybe, as many have rebutted very well, you think they have bags of cash but are just unwilling to use them?
Or...
Could it just be that you just don't always get what you want?
And that you may know what you need and work tirelessly to get it...
but never the less all of your best laid plans can come to naught?
This sounds like football, business, and life to me.
Anyhow, everyone will do what they are going to do... but regardless I'd like to encourage everyone to consider a little if you think that the way you support your club and address your concerns over on field performance, might potentially be able to be achieved in way that if not adding value, at the least doesn't directly damage or diminish what we have. That being a small club, in a new league still working to establish itself and secure its future - who has surprised everyone with its relative level of success.
So, for love of football... for love of the Mariners...
Like Mariner Mick said, lets just try loosening up a little and maybe defy the critics and the norm by in a time of difficulty showing a little love. Who knows you might even find you can still have a laugh and still enjoy yourself even in the dismal runs, which every club is bound to have at some point.
Best To All
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